Be the girl who is hard to get

Always keep your hobbies and friends and give space to each other. It happens that when one is in a relationship they tend to forget their friends and what they like to do. One gets carried away and just focuses on the things good for the relationship but not themselves.

The key to a healthy relationship is balance, rather than clinging on together every possible minute. Couples need time apart to maintain their individual identities; moreover, time spent apart helps to define the boundaries of who you are outside of your relationship in your partner’s eyes too.

Remind yourself of who you are by catching up with friends and relatives, or picking up those old hobbies you’ve wanted to do from a long time. This is a simple way to show him that you’re
life is interesting and your life does not end with him.

Suggest that your partner goes out with his or her friends while you visit with yours. Ask him to
work on his hobby or interests while you take time for yours, separately. This will help maintain
a distance and you can practice detachment.

As he is used to your absence, you can now play hard to get, when you need something from
him. For a woman, playing hard to get is a game that is meant to drive men crazy yet keep them
coming back for more.

Few things that will make him crazy are: Be busy, when he calls all he gets is your answering
machine. Ignore his phone calls and pretend you always have a full schedule. Make him pursue
you, be unavailable. Finally, when you do meet him behave like nothing ever happened.

Flirt with your guy and then move on, leave him and meet your friends in the crowd. You can
also brings up co-workers from work or male friends and make light conversations on how cute
or funny they are in order to ignite a little jealously and get him to notice you.

Playing hard to get is part of the dating game, not to mention the part that makes it fun. Stare into his eyes with passion to build up tension, and then suddenly break away when he moves in for a kiss or some neck action, play hard to get and try to see how hard he will really work for your affection.

You can leave a photograph in his wallet, attach a note saying – how much you liked him in the clean shaven look, that you prefer him clean shaven than with the stubble. Tell him if he wants to win you over all he needs to be is get rid of the stubble or he will be left craving much longer.
Flaunt yourself and say what’s on your mind.

This post is a part of the ‘Shave or Crave’ movement in association with


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